When “Perfect” Becomes a Prison: How Complex Trauma Fuels Perfectionism & How Brainspotting Can Help
Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C

When “Perfect” Becomes a Prison: How Complex Trauma Fuels Perfectionism & How Brainspotting Can Help

This post explores the hidden connection between perfectionism and trauma, how that manifests in daily life, and introduces Brainspotting as a therapeutic modality that can help release perfectionism’s grip. If you're someone who feels stuck in a cycle of “never enough,” this may offer new insight and hope.

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Finding Balance in a Divided World: How Today’s Over-Functioning Women Can Prioritize Health and Well-Being
Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C

Finding Balance in a Divided World: How Today’s Over-Functioning Women Can Prioritize Health and Well-Being

Today’s climate can be described as one marked by social fragmentation and heightened self-preservation, where division often overshadows unity. A pervasive sense of mistrust—of institutions, communities, and even personal relationships—fosters an environment where many feel the need to prioritize their own interests and safety above collective well-being. This dynamic makes it difficult for many to feel secure or grounded, often exacerbating anxiety and eroding trust in both personal relationships and broader social systems.

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Understanding Dissociation: Reconnecting with Your Emotions After Trauma
Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C Susan Martin, LMFT, NPT-C

Understanding Dissociation: Reconnecting with Your Emotions After Trauma

This blog post provides an accessible explanation of dissociation, its impact, and actionable steps for reconnecting with emotions, specifically tailored to over-functioning, people-pleasing women who have learned to disconnect from their own needs and feelings in the wake of trauma.

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